There are times when others will be mad at you or disappointed in you for your/our actions. But what if its not justified? You are now trying to figure out what I mean. What if they are expecting you not to act within your character? Just because we want them to be different to fit our idea doesn’t mean they are wrong for being true to themselves.
When in fact we are the ones who are wrong to expect them to act or react in such a way. A cat with claws will scratch. A dog will chase something that is running. Its in their nature. We as humans are no different but on a dimples level.
So the next time you get mad at someone think about it. Who are you mad at them for being true or yourself for believing in a misconception? If its not harmful or morally wrong be yourself and let others do the same.